Wednesday, April 14, 2010

God's Labrador

He was known in Vatican circles as “God’s Rottweiler,” for the sure and swift punishments he handed canonical lawbreakers. But when dealing with priests who were child molesters, he became “God’s Labrador.”

Quote from Donald Kaul, East Texas Review

Friday, April 9, 2010

Next LA Archbiship Lied about Criminal Priest

From the San Antonio Express, MY SA, April 9, 2010, by Abe Levy.

A Catholic priest from a rural parish west of San Antonio is accused in a lawsuit filed Thursday of sexually assaulting a 16-year-old boy at gunpoint and during private catechism sessions two years ago.

The suit, which names outgoing Archbishop José Gomez as a defendant and claims he sought to conceal the matter, comes three days after the Vatican named Gomez as the next archbishop in Los Angeles.

He is transferring to California next month. Gomez said recently through a spokesman that his five-year tenure involved no new sex-abuse allegations.

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Italy in denial while Africa 'fesses up

From the April 9 Irish Times: According to Cardinal Severino Poletto of Turin, “It’s time to put a stop to this whole business . .

If you thought he meant, time to put a stop to the business of priests raping, sodomizing and sexually assaulting children and young people, think again. No, he meant it's time for people to quit picking on the pope. The cardinal, like most prelates, saves his vehemence for protecting the Pope against all that nasty "gossip", as the Vatican calls the claims that the Pope didn't act to end child sexual assaults under his watch.

Less sympathetic to the problems of the hierarchy is Archbishop of Johannesburg Buti Tlhagale, who said Africa also is effected by the abuse crisis. Honesty in the hierarchy is so rare that his statement made me do a double-take.

"The image of the Catholic church is virtually in ruins because of the bad behaviour of its priests, wolves wearing sheep's skin, preying on unsuspecting victims, inflicting irreparable harm, and continuing to do so with impunity," said Tlhalgale. Now there's the guy that ought to be the next pope.

Monday, April 5, 2010

My Wish List

A friend asked me what I wanted to see happen regarding the Catholic abuse crisis, what I thought it would take to resolve this complicated issue, and this is what I came up with:

I want the Pope to publicly repudiate two doctrines: crimen solicitations and mental reservation. Crimen solicitations has been referred to a lot in the news lately; at its core, it proscribes secrecy in dealing with SA. Mental reservation means, essentially, a cleric can hide part of the truth if he thinks it serves a greater good. This has been used to justify lying to civil authorities, victims, advocates. I'm sorry, but I know for a fact two bishops in Iowa lied under oath about abuse cases. I want the Pope to repudiate these doctrines and ask forgiveness for all the damange they have caused.

I want the leadership system to change. An all-male hierarchy is at the heart of the problem. I'm certainly not anti-men: I love my husband very much, he is my best friend. I love my son and am proud of how he treats women. I love my male friends. But an all-male system is intrinsically unbalanced. Don't you think if there had been a few mothers running the show this would have unfolded quite differently??? And yes, I know women can abuse and women can enable, but the balance is what's lacking.

I want an end to celibacy rules. Richard Sipe, a former priest, researched the issue and found, through self-reporting, at any one time only 50% of priests are celibate. Their relationships by necessity are furtive and deceitful. If priests were allowed to marry, as they were in the earlier days of the church, and women shared leadership as also was a part of the early church, it would be healthier.

I want the laity to share leadership in a real and meaningful way. As it is, they have to accept whatever comes their way, or leave. I want them, also, to step up to the plate. Too many are not willing to challenge the church authority.

I would like laity to consider witholding funds until the churh is more proactive on the abuse issue. There is a movement to do so, which you can find on the Web if you're interested.


I want people who leave not to be disrespected. I am, according to the church's teaching, an apostate or heretic, I'm not sure which, but both are viewed as people who are going to hell. I am viewed as having an invalid marriage, because I was baptized as a Catholic when I was a baby but married in a different church. What does that make my children, in their eyes? There was a move during the time of Vatican II to be more accepting of other faiths, but that has ended under this pope, who proclaims that Protestant churches are not churches in the true sense of the word. What does this have to do with the abuse situation? When you believe you are the only holders of sacred truth, it's a lot easier to do whatever it takes to prevent people from seeing the problems in your system.

I want the bishops who covered up for abusers to stand trial in criminal court, where that's appropriate. And, of course, I want the abusers to be held accountable.

That's my wish list.

Pope blames victims; NY archbishop compares pope to Jesus

Now that the Pope himself has been implicated in the growing sexual assault crisis, his kind facade is beginning to crumble. The March 29 edition of the Register carried a story, Abuse crisis casts shadow as Holy Week begins; the story contained misleading information. It stated, "Benedict made no direct mention of the scandal in his Palm Sunday homily." In fact, the Pope came out fighting, not for the victims but to hold on to his power. He said in his homily, "Faith prevents being intimidated by the petty gossip of dominant opinion."

Wow. The truth is coming out, and it's not pretty. Benedict believes people who are reporting sexual abuse and the reporters who are connecting the dots about who knew what, when, are guilty of "petty gossip." Those of us who have worked with, and are, clergy sexual assault survivors, are familiar with the hierarchy's attitude, but it is a bit shocking to see it displayed so publicly. The Pope's apology to the Irish church and victims is rendered meaningless. He was willing to criticize Irish bishops for their part in passing predator priests from parish to parish, but when it was revealed he was playing the same game, he shoots the messenger.

The archbishop of New York's sermon was even more outrageous. The archbishop,Timothy Dolan, came from Milwaukee where more than 200 Deaf boys were molested by Father Lawrence Murphy, one of the cases which the Pope is accused of mishandling; Dolan referred to it as a "re-run of an old story out of Milwaukee." Dolan compared the fact that the Pope is being implicated in the cover-up with the suffering of Jesus, how the crowds turned against him and scourged (whipped) him.

Is this chutzpah or what? Hundreds of thousands of children and young people raped, sodomized, and sexually assaulted, in the US, in Canada, in Australia, in Ireland, in Europe, and God help the third world nations where the truth is still being covered up. People speak up, ask questions, get angry- and all of a sudden, the Pope is the victim.

Don't worry, though- he is refusing to be intimidated.

Well, Rats. I wish we had thought of that. I wonder if that would have worked for Barbara, who was raped at age six by her parish priest. He told her she was an evil little girl and she thought what he did was the punishment for sneaking out of the house in the wrong pair of shoes. I wonder if it would have worked for Mike, who was sexually assaulted by a notorious Eastern Iowa predator whose actions the bishop had pledged to keep secret, a written document available for all to see on the Bishop Accountability Website. I wonder if it would have worked for any of us who were raised to see the priest as "Alter Christi," another Christ, a necessary part of our salvation. And then I remember, no, intimidation is a tool of the powerful against the powerless, and that is what we were.

No more. WE refuse to be intimidated, shamed or stuffed back into the closet. We insist on being heard, and we hope the civil governments take just action to prevent others from suffering the pain of sexual assault by a trusted religious leader. We hope, too, the Catholic people will hold their leaders accountable and insist on sharing the power so this true scourge will end.

(Originally printed in the Des Moines Register, March 30, 2010.)